guilt

it's ironic when you start treating people poorly only because you feel guilty about something you've done to others.

buzz words

are key when you want someone to latch on to your idea. words that the other person can easily identify with and already have a positive image of.

people, part deux

if people change over the years... it's the way they look.

people

they just rarely never change. that's why you can get along with so many of the same people you always got along with, even after decades of no communication whatsoever.

understanding the other perspective

it's never easy to try and guess. you just need to ask.

buying groceries

never really occurred to me until today but whenever i go grocery shopping at the asian supermarket, i only buy korean items - or items that my mom usually buys. there are thousands of non-korean sauces that are probably just as good, if not better. this realization came when wayne went to hmart and his stuff was full of the chinese items that i don't even look twice at, and our stuff was full of the korean items that he doesn't even look twice at.

coaching common sense

is that possible? can people be taught common sense or is it just innate?

opinions

they change too easily sometimes. i just wish i knew the trick to make it change in my favor all the time.