yet another cheesy post

yesterday's episode of grey's anatomy posed an interesting question: shouldn't love be enough to keep a couple together? idealistically, yes, but realistically, i don't think so. perfect love is when it's completely selfless and about the other person. yet, human depravity says that none of us are perfect but are in fact, full of sin, meaning that it's not about the other person. a lot of times, it's about the self first, then others, second.

i guess the real sad part is if only one person of the couple is about selflessness, the other can take full advantage of the fact and thus, the couple will probably survive.